ENDSZO! on Instagram: "the phrase hard r has become one of those cultural terms that sparks conversation every time it comes up because it highlights how language can shift drastically in meaning depending on how it is spoken when people say hard r they are usually referring to the n word said with the strong r at the end and that has a deep history connected to racism hatred and exclusion it is not just a matter of slang or pronunciation it is about the emotional weight the word carries and how